Ask Anna is a sex column. Because of the nature of the topic, some columns contain language some readers may find graphic. I am a young woman in her 20s who has recently gotten into a long-distance relationship with another woman after being friends for a couple of years. We have discussed sex in preparation for this summer when I will take a bus out to see her.
Spanking: The Case Against It (Ages 1-3)
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The sex has been wonderful, but she has a thing about wanting me to spank her. At first I laughed, as I thought it was quite an odd request. But it was clear she was serious, and this is where the problem lies. I have spanked her a few times and, though it arouses her, it makes me feel guilty.
Ask Anna: Should I ask my girlfriend to spank me?
For many parents, the idea of spanking their child is abhorrent. And yet, about a quarter of parents do it—despite a pile of evidence that it's the wrong approach. By Bonnie Schiedel November 5,
Back in the day, spanking might have been something your mom did to you when you were in trouble—aka when you refused to come home after playing outside with the neighbs or started throwing around cuss words because you thought you were cool. Those times were Did we get your attention yet?